Len Rubel
- Apr 13, 2018
- 1 min
"There are too many fish in the sea!"
There are too many fish in the sea! Online dating can be overwhelming. So many profiles, so many choices, so many messages, so many swipes. Is the right person hidden in that algorithm or one of the many faces in your online dating collage? With so many people to choose from, and even more showing up tomorrow, and the next day and the next day how are you supposed to know who’s worth your time? The only way is to clearly define your objective. What do you really want? Why are
Len Rubel
- Apr 11, 2018
- 1 min
"All the good ones are taken!"
All the good ones are taken! When you get frustrated it’s easy to feel that way, but if that were true then why are you still single? Maybe it’s not that the good ones are taken, but the taken ones look good to you. The opportunity here is to figure out what makes them good ones so you are able to find a good one for yourself. What do you find so appealing about them? Are they confident? Are they affectionate? Do you appreciate their commitment to the relationship? Understand
Len Rubel
- Apr 10, 2018
- 2 min
"I’m not willing to settle!"
"I know who I want and I’m not willing to settle! He’s got a great sense of humor, is well-educated, over six feet tall, dark hair, blue eyes, loves kids and pets, has a great job, likes going out to eat and to the theater, likes music and going to concerts, is active and in good shape, likes hiking and working out, holds the door for me, is a great cook, is a cuddler…" For Apple, we also knew a laundry list of details that made up our current Apple purchaser. Age, gender, co
Len Rubel
- Apr 6, 2018
- 1 min
"Dating is so frustrating!"
“Dating is so frustrating!” Sometimes it can feel pointless to even try dating anymore. You get excited, it fails, you try again. Wash, rinse, repeat. Often this frustration is because your commitment and your objective aren’t aligned. In other words, what you want doesn’t match the effort you’re putting in. Imagine if you wanted to lose 20 pounds but you didn’t want to change your diet or exercise. Chances are you won’t lose the weight and you’ll get frustrated. Consider the
Len Rubel
- Apr 4, 2018
- 1 min
"I hate online dating!"
“I hate online dating!” How come some people can meet online, fall in love and get married while others swipe day after day, send message after message and never make any progress? Are they luckier? Do they have a better profile? Do you need to upgrade your account? Maybe, but that’s not the point. Online dating sites and apps are simply tactics. Match.com, eHarmony, Tinder, OKCupid and all the others (even AmishDating.com and ClownDating.com) are tools that allow you to meet
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