Saying you want to find your person is like saying you want to find a place to live. You need to dig deeper. There are a number of follow up questions that need to be answered before you can truly find what you want and be happy.
Everything you want that you achieve is because you created a strategy, even if you don’t realize it. Creating a strategy doesn’t have to be a long, difficult process. Sometimes a strategy is so baked in to what you’re doing you don’t even realize you have a strategy.